双语散文：让你微笑的人
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篇1：让你执着散文
让你执着散文
家里的电脑最近说罢工就罢工，这个情况我是知道的。
丈夫要换一台新的，我却以还能用为理由阻止。
在他嘟哝玩游戏总关机时，我还逗他说，关了你再开，不就行了？又不是打不开了。可是，这话却让我这乌鸦嘴真给说着了，那天我刚从相机里导到桌面上去冰上观冬季捕鱼的照片，电脑忽然就灭了火，任我怎么反复地开都打不开了。
对这后果根本没想到，我才将相机卡上的照片同时删除了。
丈夫见我沮丧的样子，劝我说，别上火，丢了我再带你去拍照。
我说，可以再去拍，可是能一样么？何况还有那么多朋友在里面，我用手机上网看到，有两个跟我一样喜欢照片的朋友都过来查看好几回了。
丈夫说，当时你保存到D盘里就丢不了了。
我虽然嘴上反驳他说，不是没想到陪伴了我多年的电脑会这么绝情么，心里却懊悔得要命。
第二天丈夫去买新电脑，我千叮咛万嘱咐，电脑里的东西，没丢的一定要给我保住啊。
可是，当我打开新电脑时，却悲哀地发现，那些照片一点影子都没有了。
丈夫告诉我电脑经销商说能够导过来的都导过来了，意思就是委婉地告诉我死心吧。
我也劝自己：一切发生的事情都不是偶然的，都是有原因的，这也是照片注定该丢失，不要再纠结了，纠结也没有用。
可是，事实上却放不下，只要闲下来，就会想起来，只要想起来就有些惋惜的郁闷情绪。
不相信必须得到省城去才有可能恢复不知道去哪儿了照片，我就到自己拥有的各个群里去求救，大家纷纷给我建议，可是，都说只能是有希望，不保准儿。
在我又泄气了的时候，却忽然灵机一动，觉得照相机卡上的照片既然能够删除也应该可以恢复，便去问同事小路，他让我把卡拿来，也表示不见得能够恢复得了。
既然有可能恢复，就不应放弃，我像在汪洋的绝望中发现了一根稻草，急忙抓住，希望获救。
然而，小路辛苦地操作了好久，是恢复了相机卡上的照片，可是恢复出来的却都是半截儿的照片。他说是数据被破损了的'结果，再没有办法了。
他是这方面的权威，我不怀疑他的结论。
当我看着那些残缺不全的照片无计可施时，心里更难受，觉得还不如什么也看不到了。
这个念头一出来，我才突然明白，那些该丢的照片，我非得绞尽脑汁去找，难为了自己还麻烦了很多朋友。我仿佛听到冥冥中有声音对我说，让你执着，就不给你找到，强求的也只能是残缺不全的结果。
丢照片的事件，表面上是一件坏事，实际也有好的一面，比如，我从此知道以后再往电脑上导照片要注意放到安全的地方，同时，相机里的也不应该急着删除，保存一阵也不费草料什么的，还能有备无患，多好。
已经可以淡定接受照片丢失的现实了，我告诉还在四方打听的丈夫说，不要再咨询了。
负重了几天，真的放下了，没有了往日的郁闷，顿时轻松了。
篇2：让你高兴散文
让你高兴散文
晚饭后，为捣鼓网上订票，打开了电脑，然后海阔天空地与你聊了起来。你提到了“让我高兴”之语。实事求是地讲，如果能够让你高兴，那便是我本人最大的高兴了。
生活中的我其实是一个比较内向、大多时候都沉默寡言的人，不会花言巧语，不会阿谀奉承，但如果遇到“知音”也会有诸多“一鸣惊人”之言，让我的听众笑逐颜开、满心欢喜。谁都喜欢和喜欢的人聊天，与聊得来的人聊天，它让人轻松、放松，还能从中获得知识，捕捉信息，收集快乐的音符；与智慧之人对话，自身也增加智慧，且爽心醒脑。前提是要彼此愿意，双方都舒服，都高兴，强人所难就没劲了。
周日，店里发生业务急待处理，我接到电话急忙打的向公司进发。一路上，与的哥师傅聊的热火朝天。他说，有乘客反映他们老是给人掉脸子，我答，每个人都有不高兴的时候，或者刚刚遇到过什么令人恼火的麻烦事；他还说，有人说，乘客问他们事情或者主动和他们聊天，他们爱答不理，我回，每个人都有不想说话的`时候，沉默也是一种释放。每个人更是有选择聊天对象的权利。不是说“酒逢知己千杯少，话不投机半句多”吗？于是，他特别开心，兴高采烈地和我聊了很多，说我好相处，善解人意。我到达目的地下车时，他非常友好地叮嘱，小心、慢点，走好，希望多遇到你这样的乘客。
心情是传染的，一如流动的空气，一如传播的病毒。把好心情传递给他人，让他人高兴，自己也高兴。
人与人之间，关系好坏，都是相互的，“一个巴掌拍不响”。不论夫妻、父母子女、兄弟姐妹、婆媳、妯娌姑嫂，还是上下级、同事、朋友、陌生人，都应该是“你敬我一尺，我敬你一丈”，相互理解、相互尊重。传送快乐，反馈开心；传达善意，得到友好。一个整天满脸“旧社会”的人，估计也没人想给他笑脸；一个眼里没一个好人的人，估计他本人也不咋样；一个总想置人于死地的人，估计他自己也活不好。我相信，与人方便自己方便，帮人帮己，悦人悦己。要维持好彼此的亲密关系，很重要的一点，就是要重视对方的感受，多替对方着想，让对方高兴。真正喜欢一个人就应该喜欢他的一切，也包括他的缺点和不完美；真正爱一个人，不是绞尽脑汁去改变他，而是包容他的缺点和不完美，并连同他的喜好一同去喜欢和爱。我们改变不了环境，就去适应环境；我们改变不了他人，就去改变自己。何况，这个世界根本没有一个统一的完美。
自以为，很能设身处地为他人着想。见不得人家因为自己为难和难堪；见不得人家的痛苦和伤悲。从小到大，不会忤逆家长、老师、公司领导、尊者长辈，有时宁可自己受委屈。对待同事、邻居，或者陌路人，都应该有平和的心态，平等的态度。每个人都有自己做人做事的方法和原则，每个人都有自己的不得已和苦衷。要想得到别人的尊重，首先学会尊重别人，要想自己高兴，首先要学会让他人高兴。
非常清晰地记得，自己学龄之前帮祖父挠痒痒的事。一个五六岁的小孩子，一双稚嫩的小手，在爷爷的背上来回地滑着，一阵阵，小胳膊就酸的不想动了，但是，为了让爷爷舒服一点，为了让爸爸的眉头舒展，为了全家人都高兴，我和姐姐总是很努力地重复着那个动作。
尊老爱幼是中华民族的传统美德，让老人高兴，是子女义不容辞的责任和义务。孝顺父母天经地义、理所当然。他们老了，以顺为孝是老人最高兴的。就如我的老娘，她喜欢在哪里居住就在哪里吧，只要老人家高兴；就像婆婆，她喜欢吃什么饭菜、零食，喜欢穿什么衣服，喜欢看什么电视就由着她去吧，只要老人家高兴。当然了，还有你、你们，我的朋友，我的兄弟姐妹，你们高兴就是我最大的快乐。
或许，每个人心中都有一个惦记，都有一个倍加关注。父母是永远的家，爱人是永远的依靠，孩子是永远的牵挂，志同道合的朋友则是永远的财富。你呢，在我心中是一个难能可贵的“综合体”，是我生命中的贵人，是我遇到的“奇迹”。有关你的喜怒哀乐，你的伤病痛痒，甚至别人对你的评价似乎都与我联系在了一起。希望你健康，希望你高兴，希望你家庭幸福，希望你事业有成，希望你永葆青春，希望你完美无憾。不愿意打扰你，不愿意影响你，不愿意麻烦你，却又忍不住内心的关心和关注。我知道，其实我做不了什么，也无能为力，甚至有时候只能“添乱”，然而，我是真心实意希望你幸福快乐，实实在在地祝福你每一天都过得好。你高兴便是晴天！
我想，既然缘分把我们联系到了一起，你就是上帝赐予我的“最精美的礼物”。如果你是童话，我愿意用心去阅读；如果你是神曲，我愿意用情去吟唱。我明白，卸去“光环”，我们都是一介草民，都是世俗中的凡尘微粒，那又何妨？用真实的面目，过我们真实的人生，谁奈我何？很久以来，我已经说了很多很多；很久以来，我已经写了很多很多，今后的，就让时间去见证吧。只要你高兴。
要过节了，先是中秋，接着就是国庆，两个举足轻重的盛大节日手拉手来了。不论从哪个角度说，我都应该给您送份大礼。思来想去，我就给你三份礼物吧。一是感激，二是敬慕，三是让你高兴。
篇3：七个忠告让你感情长久双语
七个忠告让你感情长久双语
When you think about sustainability, what comes to mind—global warming, going green, doing your part to lessen your carbon footprint? How about relationships? We should compost old relationships and only get involved with organic people? Not exactly, no. Although the concept is intriguing, this would be implausible for most of us, given our cultural proclivity towards big “relationship footprints.”
当你想到“可持续”这个词时,会有什么浮现于你的脑海之中呢?——全球变暖,绿色生活,在节能减排中贡献你的应尽之力?那么感情之事呢?我们是否应该让段段旧关系“混成堆肥”,只同那些“有机单纯”的人们交往?并非如此,不是的。虽然这概念挺新奇的,但对于我们大多数人来说,这样的做法似乎并不大合情理,要知道在我们的文化里,大家还是倾向关系多多,“感情印迹”大大的。
If you have had a few relationships you know what I mean by “sustainability”—especially if they have been a source of pain or suffering to some degree. But what of the ones you wish to keep, nurture, and grow rather than watch die prematurely or unexpectedly? Instead of all that energy most of us spend putting ourselves “out there” on the emotional limb—oftentimes left with nothing more than a “seed”, or perhaps less some seeds,as the case may be—let's wise up and turn those seeds into wisdom. Let's get on with how to make our lives fertile so that we can more optimally attract and create healthier, more fulfilling, and sustainable relationships, ones that have the greatest potential for an amazing harvest, season after season to come.
如果你与人有过一些交往——特别是经历过那些在某种程度上让你饱受痛苦或折磨的关系,你就会知道我所谓的“可持续”是什么意思了。但反之,如果有些感情是你希望能够维持下去,继续培养并不断加深,而非看着它们早早夭折或意外中断的呢?假使我们大多数人用尽全身气力却使自己“毫无保留”地处于情感的困境——时常除了一颗“种子”什么都没留下,或者也许连种子都没有,这个得视情况而定——我们还是别傻了,把那些“种子”变成智慧吧。我们还是学习如何“滋润”自己的人生吧,这样我们才能够更有吸引力,并创造更加健康、更加圆满和可持续发展的感情关系——拥有最大潜力,能在将来的日子里开花结果的感情关系。
Relationships can be complicated given the myriad of unique nuances that make up any one individual and the layers of experiences that create the filters we each see reality through. The real enigma seems to be a matter of skill and planning—how to create an optimal climate for potential growth within this human complexity. Just like plants, relationships grow and flourish under optimal circumstances and care. So, here are some pointers for how to sustain any great relationship platonic or otherwise), once you have carefully selected who you want to be in it with:
人际关系有可能会很复杂,想想,每个人都有着种.种独一无二的微妙个性,重重经验阅历创造出各不相同的“滤镜”以观察现实世界。其中真正的奥秘似乎在于技巧和计划——如何营造最佳的氛围让感情在这人间迷阵里发展潜能?就如同植物一样,感情关系也要在最佳的环境以及呵护中才能成长绽放。以下是一些教你如何维持各种良好感情关系(纯友谊关系或其他关系)的忠告,前提是你已谨慎地选择好你想要交往的对象:
1. Respect:If you don't, you have no chance at real, lasting intimacy (in my not-so-humble opinion). If you respect yourself, just double it. Don't just talk about it either—this is an action item. Respect is not a feeling; it's a way of behaving!
尊重:如果你不尊重他人,你就没有机会获得真正而持久的亲密关系(恕我直言)。如果你尊重你自己,那么你就要双倍尊重他人。但不要只是口头上说说而已——这是要靠行动表达的。尊重不是一种感觉,而是一种行为方式!
2. Responsible communication:You get to choose from every word in the English language (or whatever language you share) in whatever tone you choose to communicate your thoughts and feelings to another, so choose carefully. You have no one to blame if you don't tell the truth or say what you want. My teacher says, “We are always doing one of two things; creating separation or connection.”What is your intention?
可靠的沟通:与他人交流想法、表达感受,不论要用何种语调,从英语语言(或者你使用的任何语言)中选择哪个字词,其决定权都在你手上,所以一定要谨慎选择。如果你没有说实话或者说明你想要什么,那你就不能责备任何人。我的一位老师说过:“我们总是在做着以下两件事之中的一件:形成隔阂或建立联系。”你打算怎么做呢?
3. Integrity:Do what you say you're going to do, when you say you're going to do it, as often as humanly possible. Nobody trusts a flake, nor does anyone want their vulnerable hearts to be in the care of one. If you love and respect someone, ACT like it!
诚实:当你说你打算要做什么的时候,你就要尽自己的一切可能,做到言出必行。没有人会信任一个反复无常的人,也不会有人希望把他们脆弱的心灵托付给言而无信的人。如果你爱某人,尊敬他/她,就要以行动表示!
4. Compatibility:If you are mad about the outdoors, can't live without reality TV, are a screaming liberal, or abhor people who over-accessorize or don't keep up on current events, then you probably wouldn't want to hang out with…me, for example. Just because someone has good energy doesn't mean you can do well together in real life. Watch what people do, not only what they say. Make sure they match or you'll be sadly disappointed, eventually bored, and even resentful. There are 7 billion people on the planet—check some more of them out and quit trying to make a person someone they are not!
相容性:如果你疯狂热衷户外活动,离开了电视真人秀节目就活不下去,是一个彻头彻尾的自由主义者,厌恶别人打扮得过于花枝招展,讨厌别人对当前时事一无所知,那么你可能不会愿意同某些人在一起,比如说……我。就因为某人能力出众,并不意味着你们在现实生活中能和睦相处。要观察人们做些什么,而不仅仅是他们说些什么。确认他们和你是一路人,不然你就会相当失望,最后感到无趣甚至憎恶。在这个星球上生活着70亿人——多观察一些人,而且不要试图彻底改造别人!
5. Compassion:Walked a mile in their shoes, have you? I recommend, before you think you know whatever you think you know about the person you say you love, one of the most loving acts of all: understand as much as you want to be understood. Old adage for a reason. “Cause it's a damn good one!”
将心比心:要设身处地为他人着想,你能做到吗?我建议,在你对你说你爱的人自以为有多了解之前,最浓烈的表达爱意的行动之一就是:如同你有多么渴望被人了解一样,你应该多多去了解别人。这老话说得好。“因为它真是太好了!”
6. Expectations:The fastest way to get back to love in any relationship is to want nothing.Try it. No one is responsible for your happiness or anything else, unless expressly agreed to.
期望:在一切感情关系中,想要重回爱河最快的方式莫过于一无所求。仅此而已,别无其他。试试吧!没有人需要对你的快乐或其他什么负责,除非他/她清楚地表达过此类想法。
7. Consciousness agreements:One of my all-time favorites. Let people know what's important to you up front. As soon as possible, in fact. In any relationship the time to negotiate is up front, not after you are in deep! Two of my “needs” (if you can call them that) in a friendship are that a) we don't make unilateral decisions about ending the friendship, and b) if we have a problem we bring it to the other person as soon as possible. What are your non-negotiables?
观念协议:这一直是我的最爱之一。让人们预先知道对你来说什么才是重要的。实际上,越快越好。在任何一段交往关系中,得把原则性问题说在前,而不是等问题出现之后再来讨价还价!我在一段友情之中的两大“需求”(如果你能这么称呼的话)就是:1) 我们在终结友情这一问题上绝不单方面做出决定;2) 如果出现了问题,我们要尽快向另一方提出商议。你们的原则性问题又是什么呢? 更多信息请访问：www.24en.com/
These tools and skills have helped me immeasurably over the years and I rely on them all, as they are responsible for helping me maintain the loving, healthy relationships I have today! Remember, relationships take work; they are not just “add water” and people are not disposable. They are precious blessings, and in their presence I feel blessed to keep on my path to becoming the best version of myself, as well as have the privilege to witness those I love do the same!
多年以来,这些手段和技巧带给我无法估量的帮助。全靠这些方法,让我维系好我现在所拥有的忠实而健康的感情关系!记住,感情需要经营,不仅仅是“浇点水”那么简单,别人也不是“用完即弃的”。感情是珍贵的福祉,身在其中,我觉得自己很幸运,能继续不断追求完美的自我,同时还有幸看到那些我所爱的人们也纷纷效法!
篇4：快乐习惯让你远离抑郁症双语
快乐习惯让你远离抑郁症双语
1. Be grateful 要学会感恩
Slow down, look around you, and pay attention to the little details in your life – the delicate purple flower on the sidewalk, the beautiful sunset, the hot shower that washes away your long day, and the smile in your partner’s eyes…
让自己变慢脚步，看看你的四周，关注生活中的细微之处：人行道上淡紫色的花，美丽的日落，洗去你一天疲惫的淋浴，伴侣眼中的笑容。
When you have a grateful heart that is appreciative of life’s beautify, wonder and blessings, you’re automatically filled with happiness.
当你的感恩之心能够欣赏生活的美，思考和祝福，你自然就充满了幸福感。
2. Choose your friends wisely 明智的选择自己的朋友
According to Harvard, the most important external factors affecting individual happiness are human relationships. So if you want to be happy, choose to be around people who are optimistic, who appreciate you as you are, and who can make your life richer, bigger, more fun, and more meaningful.
根据哈佛，影响个人幸福最重要的外部因素是人际关系。所以如果你想变得开心的话，要选择和乐观的朋友在一起，他们能欣赏你真实的自己，让你的生活变得更丰富，快乐，有意义。
3. Cultivate compassion 培养同情心
When we try to step into other people’s shoes and understand a situation from another’s perspective, we’re more likely to handle the situation with compassion, objectivity and effectiveness. There will be less conflicts and more happiness.
当我们代替别人，站在另一个角度看问题，我们更能用同情心，客观和有效的处理问题。生活中就会少一些冲突，多一点快乐。
4. Keep learning 不断学习
Learning keeps us young and dreams keep us alive. When we engage our brains and put them toward productive uses, we’re less likely to dwell on unhappy thoughts and much more likely to feel happy and fulfilled.
学习让我们保持年轻，梦想让我们充满活力。我们运用大脑，进行运作的时候，我们就不大会想不开心心的事情，我们会变得更开心和满足。
5. Become a problem solver 学会解决问题
Happy people are problem solvers. When they encounter a challenge in life, they don’t beat themselves up and fall into a depressive state. Instead, they face up to the challenge and channel their energies toward finding creative a solution. By becoming a problem solver, you’ll build up your self-confidence and your ability to accomplish whatever it is you set your mind to – and whatever challenges life throws your way.
开心的人是会解决问题的人。在生活中遇到挑战的时候，他们不会自虐，然后变得很消沉。他们会直面挑战，调动全身力量寻找解决办法。通过变成一个解决问题的人，你会建立自己的自信心和下决心要的事情和直面挑战的能力。
6. Do what you love 做你想做的事情
Since we spend over one-third of our adult life working, loving what we do has a huge impact on our overall happiness. If this is not possible at the moment, then try to find enjoyment and meaning in your current work, or cultivate a hobby that involves doing something you love.
既然我们成人生活的三分之一时间都在工作，那么做我们想做的事对我们的整体辛福感就有很大的影响。如果现在不能做你想做的事情，那就试着在你现在的工作中寻找快乐和意义，或者培养一个你喜爱的兴趣。
7. Live in the present 活在当下
When you feel depressed, you’re living in the past. When you feel worried or anxious, you’re living in the future. But when you feel content, happy and peaceful, you’re living in the present.
你感到沮丧，是因为你活在过去。你会感到担忧和焦虑，是因为你活在未来。但是当你感到满足，开心和平和时，你才是活在当下。
8. Laugh often 要经常笑
Laughter is the most powerful anecdote to anger or depression. Research has shown that the simple act of curving the corners of your mouth can increase your feeling of happiness. So don’t take life too seriously. Try to find humor and laughter in life’s everyday struggles.
笑是对抗生气或沮丧最有力的的东西。研究表明简单的嘴巴上扬也可以增加你的幸福感。不要把生活看的太严肃。要学会在每日的奋斗中寻找幽默感和笑声。
9. Practice forgiveness 学会原谅
Resentment and anger are forms of self-punishment. When you forgive, you’re actually practicing kindness to yourself. And most importantly, learn to forgive yourself. Everyone makes mistakes. It’s through our mistakes that we learn and grow to become a bigger and better person.
憎恨和生气是对自我的惩罚。当你释怀的时候，事实上你是在对自己施以善意。最重要的是，学会原谅自己。每个人都犯错。只有通过我们的错误，我们才慢慢学会如何成为一个更强大，更好的人。
10. Say thanks often 要经常说谢谢
Always be appreciative of the blessings in your life. And it’s equally important to express your appreciation to those who’ve made your life better in some way, big or small.
对生活中的祝福要学会欣赏。向那些让你生活变好的人，无论或大或小，表达出你的欣赏之情也同样重要。
篇5：是工作让你单身的吗？(双语)
U.S. government data reveals that up to 44% of the U.S. workforceis single -- and it may be because of work. Here are four reasons why your job might be keeping you single and what to do about it.
美国政府公布的数据显示有接近44%的职场人士是单身，而单身的原因很有可能是工作。以下列举了工作可能造成单身的四点原因以及应对措施：
1. “I don't have time to date.”
我没时间去约会。
Many people who are single say their jobs don't leave them with enough time to meet Mr. or Mrs. Right. You may have made a consciousdecision to make career your No. 1 priority. Or it may be that pursuing your dream job is easier than pursuing your dream partner. Whatever the reason, dedicating too much of your time and energy to your career will cause your dating life to flounder.
很多单身的人都说自己的工作忙得没有足够的时间去认识真命天子（天女）。你可能下意识的将工作当成第一优先事项。也可能是因为找到梦想中的工作比找到梦中情人更容易。不管理由如何，如果你在工作中花费太多的时间和精力的话，就会使得你的约会生活毫无进展。
Solution: Make dating your work. Approach your social life with the same determination and commitmentyou apply to your career. You wouldn't expect to get ahead at work if you didn't put in the time. Make an investment in your coupled future by setting dating goals, like committing a certain number of hours a week to dating.
解决之道：将约会当成工作。将你在工作中的决心和果断同样应用到你的社交生活中。在工作中如果不花时间的话就无法取得进步。设立约会的目标（比如每周哪些固定的时间去约会），为未来的二人世界投资。
2. “My boss knows I'm single and singles me out.”
上司因为知道我单身给了我很多工作任务，搞得我一直单身。
Singles are often expected to work late, travel for business, and take on last minute assignments because they don't have “family commitments.” For example, Pennsylvania Governor Ed Rendell stated last year that the choice of Janet Napolitano as Homeland Security Secretary was an excellentone because she has “no family and no life” and could devote 19-20 hours a day to the job.
上司通常会因为单身的员工没有家庭负担，而期望他们工作到更晚、出差、承担最后一分钟的任务。比如，宾夕法尼亚州的州长Ed Rendell声称，Janet Napolitano作为国家安全部长是一个非常明智的选择，因为她没有家庭生活，每天可以工作19-20小时。
Solution: Value your dating commitments. If your boss asks you to work late, you don't always have to say “yes.” Saying that you already have plans is an acceptableexcuse. It's great to be able to put in the hours to get ahead at work, but make sure that you're not allowing work to get in the way of your other life goals.
解决之道：重视约会承诺。如果上司叫你加班，你不必每次都答应。告诉上司你已经有安排了，这个是很正当的拒绝理由。在工作中投入更多的时间让自己遥遥领先固然好，但是要确保你没有让工作挡住了你实现生活目标的道路。
3. “Everyone I know is taken/married/coupled up.”
我认识的每个人都名花有主/结婚了。
While this may not seem to be a job-related issue, it could be. Statistics show that nearly half of all married couples met at work. So you're at a disadvantage if your work doesn't provide you with opportunities to meet and hang out with other singles.
这点看起来和工作无关，但实际上是有关系的。数据显示差不多有一半以上的结婚夫妇是在工作上认识的。所以，如果工作让你无法认识其他单身人士，更没办法和他们约会的话，你就处于不利的地位。
Solution: Create your own dating pool. Branch out and try different approaches to meeting other singles. Join a local group/club, attend a different restaurant/bar, or join 40 million Americans using online dating and social networking sites to meetavailablesingles.
解决之道：建立自己的交际圈。拓展你的交际圈，试试用不同的方法去认识其他单身人士。加入一家当地的团体或俱乐部，去不同的餐馆/酒吧，或利用在线约会或网上的社交网站去认识不错的单身人士。
Going back to school can help you advance your career and give you a chance to interact with like-minded people. Use the free education-decision test to find out if going back to school is the right move for you.
重回学校深造不仅可以帮助你事业取得进步，也可以让你有机会结识志同道合的人。利用免费的教育决策测试来看看你是否适合重返学校深造。
4. “No one wants to date a ...”
没人想和一个……约会。
Unfortunately, some jobs come with certain stereotypes that can make a prospective date run for the hills. For example, being a lawyer or therapistcould make you a dating pariah because nobody's idea of a good date is to argue or be psychoanalyzed!
很不幸，有些刻板的工作让约会离你远远的。比如，律师或临床医学家的工作可能让你和约会无缘，因为没人会认为好的约会是辩论或被进行精神治疗。
Solution: Be yourself, not your job. If you have a job with a poor career dating profile, don't reinforce these prejudgments. Be aware of the stereotypes that go along with your job title and avoid discussing work-related topics until you and your date have a better understanding of each other.
解决之道：做你自己，而不是你的工作。如果你本来的工作就会给别人一种不适合约会的形象，那自己就不要再增加这一负面影响了。要注意你工作职位中的那些陈腔滥调，直到你和约会对象有更好的了解之前不要谈和工作相关的事情。
篇6：10大信号标志你已经长大双语散文
10大信号标志你已经长大双语散文
Maturity is a state when an individual is in a position to realize what is happening around him/her, to understand the rationale behind those happenings and does not get too elated nor too depressed by final results. Thus he/she is in a position to absorb pressures and remain unperturbed by the situations around him/her. You can realize you have now matured by looking for following signs:
成熟是一种状态，当你突然意识到周围发生的一切，能够理解这些事情背后的缘由，不会因结果得意洋洋抑或一蹶不振，你就成熟了。你已经能够化解压力，不被周围的环境所干扰。看看下面的信号判断一下自己成熟没有吧：
1. You listen more and talk less
多听少说
When we realize as human beings we are built to hear more (because we have two ears) and speak less (we have one mouth/tongue); we gain more information and whatever we speak will be based on substantial reasoning. This will provide a glimpse of a thinking individual/rational person to the audience. Thus you shall be perceived more seriously, and in turn this will add to your confidence. It is the first sign of you becoming a more matured individual than what you were before.
当我们意识到作为人，我们需要多听(因为有两个耳朵)少说(只有一张嘴/一根舌头)，我们就能获得更多的信息，说出的话也能基于靠谱的推断，这会让听众觉得这个人很有思想和逻辑性。这样你就会被认为是个更靠谱正经的人，同时还能增加自己的自信。这可以当成是你和以前相比变得成熟的第一个标志。
2. You do not shy away from responsibilities
你不再羞于承担责任
As individuals we play a variety of roles in our societal set up. Be it for our family, our community, our friends, our country or for the human race in general. Additionally, we, being the highly successful species on Earth, should also be responsible for other species of this planet, as well as for sustaining the planet for future life forms. When you think in these terms, you behave in a more responsible manner. You not only perform your duties for your family or country, you also take care of mother earth. This makes you a matured individual on this planet.
作为个人，我们在社交圈里承担着各式各样的角色，包括家庭、社区，朋友们、国家甚至于人类这个大圈子。除此之外，我们作为地球上的最高级生物，也需要对其他物种负责，为了未来的生命框架保护这个地球的和谐发展。当你这样去思考问题，其实也就变得更加负责任了。你不仅在家庭或国家中承担了你的职责，你还照顾到了我们的地球母亲。这会让你成为更加成熟的人。
3. You are less argumentative and more accommodating
你不再那么好辩
There are times when you think you are right in an argument but by winning an argument you may lose a friend. So, it may be advisable to refrain from arguing too much at these times. Quite often, when things are normal, the other person with whom there was an argument may realize your point of view, or it is also possible you understand his/her perspective better. For, just because someone is not agreeing to you, does not mean he/she is wrong. By arguing less, you are providing the required space and prestige to others, and at the same time you are buying more time for yourself to look at the other’s argument from another angle. And additionally, you command more respect from others. This shows you are now a matured individual.
有时你会觉得自己在辩论中是正确的，但如果赢得了辩论可能会失去朋友。所以最聪明的做法莫过于在此刻避免过多的争论。更多时候，如果不是什么大事，那个有自己观点的人也许会了解你的想法，或者你也可能更好的了解ta的立场。所以，别人不赞同你，并不代表ta就是错的。少辩论，也给别人提供了必须的空间和威望，同时你也能给自己争取更多时间来从别的角度审视别人的观点。除此之外，你还能从他人身上获得更多的尊重。这也能表明你变得更加成熟了。
4. You enjoy each season
你享受每个季节
Most of us have a likening for either summer or winter or spring or rains. That’s fine. But there is no need to get irritated whenever your favorite season has been replaced by another one. There is a cycle of seasons and life forms adapt to that. No one can control seasonal cycles and no one should control them. So if you are enjoying changes in season, however abrupt they might seem, you have grown into a matured individual.
大部分人都会更喜欢夏天或冬天或春天或雨季。这个没啥，但自己最爱的季节过去了也没必要感到恼火。季节的轮替就是这样，我们生命早已习惯如此。没有人可以控制季节的循环也不能去控制。所以如果你很享受季节的变换，不管变得多么突然，你已经变得更成熟了。
5. You wear a smile on your face
脸上带着微笑
Life is a topsy-turvy event. It doesn’t matter how hard scientists/researchers try to predict it, it remains unpredictable. You plan for today in the morning, and by the afternoon you have to modify it to accommodate something unplanned. Whatever the situation may be, wearing a smile has a positive impact on your body and mind. So, if you are being found mostly with a smile, you should consider this as a sign of getting matured.
生活总是出其不意的。不管科学家/研究员多么努力的想去预言，还是无法确切估计。你早上做了今天的计划，下午有可能就需要为一些未知事件修改计划。不论情况如何，都带着微笑，这样能给身体和精神带来积极的影响。所以，如果你总是带着微笑，也可以看成是成熟的标志。
6. You love children and elders
你尊老爱幼
Most of us like to hangout with friends. Most of these friends are of the same age group. However, if you like to spend time with children and older people, you should consider yourself a mature individual. Quite often, spending time with people who are not in your age bracket helps you visualize life in an entirely different manner. These moments, later on, shall be counted in your experiences.
大部分人都喜欢和朋友泡在一起。我们大多数的朋友都是同龄人。然而，如果你愿意花时间和小孩老人们在一起，你就成熟了。大部分时候，花时间和不同年龄段的人在一起能帮你更好的以全然不同的方式看待生活。这些时刻，不久之后都会成为你的阅历。
7. You save more than what you expend
你存的比花的多
This one does not need any detail explanation. Saving more than the expenditures will itself lend credibility to your maturity status.
这一条不需要什么具体的解释了。存的比花的多毫无疑问是你成熟的最可靠标志。
8. You indulge more in reading
你更多的时间花在阅读上
To be updated is of utmost priority in today’s knowledge-driven society. And probably one of the best ways to get informed is to read. If you are spending more time reading, this indicates you are serious about your business which is a sign of maturity.
在当今这样知识驱动的社会，适应是排在首位的。要想获得更多的信息，最好的方式莫过于阅读。如果你更多的时间花在阅读上，这就意味着你对自己的事情更加上心，也是成熟的标志。
9. You take care of yourself as well as others
你照顾自己和别人
In the run of life, you may give less importance to yourself relative to your family members. However, you must realize you are no less significant. Therefore, you must take out time for yourself, and take care of your body and mind. This will, in turn lead to better performance in your duties which will render you as a responsible and matured person.
在生命的长河中，也许你觉得家人会比自己更加重要。然而，你必须意识到你是独一无二的。因此，你必须抽出时间来照顾自己，不仅身体还有思想。这能够反过来促进你更好地履行责任，让你成为有责任心的成年人。
10. You seek the signs of maturity
你试图寻求成熟的标志
You’re reading this article; this action itself shows you are serious about being considered mature. You now seem to shoulder your responsibilities and want to know the meaning of your existence. Therefore, you are looking for things you should know/do in order to become a responsible and mature citizen. This is a sign of you now being a mature individual.
你在看这篇文字，这个行为本身就代表你想要变得更加成熟。也许你想要承担责任，想知道自己存在的意义。因此，你在寻求那些要成为有责任成熟公民需要知道/做哪些事。这本身就说明你正在走向成熟。
Maturity brings with it responsibility. With responsibility comes sensibility. Sensibility leads to confidence. So move with confidence to show the world you have now matured.
成熟带来的是责任。责任带来的是感悟。感悟带来的是自信。所以自信的向这个世界展示你已经成熟了吧。
篇7：让你事业前进的小建议双语
让你事业前进的小建议双语
下面是一些“鞭笞”建议让你的事业朝正确方向发展---前进。
1.Self-Access 自检
Co-authors of the book “The Girl's Guide to Kicking Your Career Into Gear: Valuable Lessons, True Stories, And Tips For Using What You've Got (A Brain!) To Make Your Worklife Work For You,” Caitlin Friedman and Kimberly Yorio suggest that you begin by asking yourself what it is that you find frustrating1 about your job. Is it your boss? Your daily responsibilities? Your coworkers? Are you not making the money you feel you deserve?
《女性指南：如何让事业动起来--有价值的课程、真实故事、以及如何用你有的(脑子!)的建议来让你的工作生活为你打工》一书合著者Caitlin Friedman和Kimberly Yorio建议人你开始应该问自己对工作中哪个方面感到沮丧。是老板吗?是日常责任吗?是同事吗?你感到自己赚的钱合理吗?
“Depending on the source of the frustration2, make an action plan for yourself to change the situation,” says Yorio. “The next step is to ask yourself what you may be contributing to the situation. And then actively3 address the problem by asking for what you want, changing your job, confronting a coworker, or even start researching a new career.”
Yorio说：“根据沮丧的来源不同，对自己制定行动计划来改变情况。接下来问问自己在这个情况下可能自身促成的是什么。然后通过问自己希望得到什么、或者换工作、或者去面对某位同事、甚至开始调查新职业来解决问题来主动地去处理问题。”
2.Overcome Fear 克服恐惧
Start by putting your fear into perspective. “Tell yourself that there is no fear bigger than the goals you have for yourself,” says Friedman.
客观看待恐惧。 Friedman说：“对自己说没什么恐惧会比对自己的目标更大。”
Whether your fear is public speaking, taking on a higher profile assignment, or asking for a much needed and deserved raise, you must face fear in order to move your career forward. “The point is not to ignore them because fears don't go away; they just get bigger and soon will be impacting your career,” Friedman.
不论你的恐惧是公共演讲、接受一项“高调”的任务，或要求获得十分需要、十分应得的加薪，你都必须面对恐惧才能让事业朝前发展。Friedman说：“关键一点是不要忽略它们因为恐惧不会离开;它们只会越来越强烈，很快地将会对你的事业产生影响”
3.Dust off Your Resume 重新拿出简历
If you've become comfortable in your present position, chances are you haven't looked at your resume in a while. People who advance are always ready for their next move. You simply never know when a new position may open up in your present company, or when a great opportunity will come your way somewhere new. Those who have their resume ready will be able to respond to new opportunities with relatively4 little effort compared to those who haven't updated their resume in several years.
Cheryl Palmer of Call to Career, a career coaching service, suggests maintaining a record of your accomplishments5 as you go along in your job to help you keep your resume up-to-date.
如果你在目前职位上感到舒适，那么有可能你有一段时间没看自己的简历了。处于前进中的人们总会准备好下一次的行动。你根本不知道什么时候目前公司将会开设一个新职位，或有一个绝好机会在某个新的地方向你招手。和那些数年不更新简历的人相比，把简历随时准备好的人们几乎不费任何功夫就能对新的机会能做出响应。
来自职业教练服务公司Call to Career的Cheryl Palmer建议人们在一边工作中一边对自己的工作成绩做好记录，使自己的简历一直处于最新状态。
4.Do Good 做好事
“If your job feels humdrum6 and you feel like you could do it with your eyes closed, but it's not feasible for you to look for greener pastures at this time, you might consider mentoring7 someone who is less experienced in the field to pass along what you have learned over the years,” says Palmer.
Palmer说：“如果工作让你感到平淡无味，感到闭上眼也能完成它，而现在找工作的时机又不适合，那么可以考虑为一名在这一领域经验较少的人进行辅导，将长期学到的东西传授给别人。”
“You might also look at taking on collateral8 duties, such as chairing a committee or getting cross-trained in a new area.”
“还可以考虑负担相关职责,例如：委员会主席、或对新领域进行交叉培训”
5.Be Open to Change 以开放态度对待变化
Finally, the only thing that may be standing9 between your present reality and your dream gig is limited thinking.
最后，在目前的现实和梦想的工作之间所隔的也许只是一个受局限的思维。
”If you aren't sure what it is you want then start tapping into your network,“ says Yorio. ”Ask everyone you meet what they like about what they do, and be open to new ideas and opportunities. People often get stubborn when it comes to how they see themselves at work, which makes it difficult for other people to help them think big.“
“如果不确定想要的是什么，那么就着手利用你的人际关系网。问见到的每个人他们喜欢自己工作中的哪点，对新想法和机会采取一个开放的态度。当谈到如何在工作中看待自己时，人们往往变得固执起来，这难以让别人帮助他们拥有宏图。”
扩展：十件不应告诉老板的事
也许你和你的老板相处地很好，但总是会在一些特殊的场合里你想说的话多于你应该说的。下面是你不应该和你老板说的10件事。
You may get along well with your boss but there will always be that specific instance1 where you want to say more than you should. Here are ten things that you should not say to your boss.
1. In a minute.
Sometimes you'll get called into the boss' office just as you're about to do something that you've been waiting to do. Bosses don't often view our personal wants as an important factor to the job, so when your boss calls you in to see them, it's not good to say you'll be there in a minute.
等一会。
有些时候当你老板让你去他办公室的时候你正好要做一些你一直等着做的事情。事实上老板们并不把我们个人的需要看成是工作中一个重要的因素，所以当你的老板叫你去见他的时候，最好别说等一会过去。
2. Ooh, ugly tie There may be times that your boss wears the ugliest tie on earth but it is not your place to tell them. They are aware how they dress and maybe the tie was a gift that they couldn't say no to wearing. Or maybe they just have bad taste, but that is their privilege2.
哦，难看的领带!
也许有些时候你的老板戴了世界上最丑的领带，但是这并不是你应该告诉他们的。他们知道自己穿衣服的风格，也许这个领带是一个他们不能不戴的礼物。或者也许他们只是有很差的品味，但那是他们的特权。
3. I hit your car.
Yes, it could happen that you bumped3 your boss' car in the parking lot. It's only right that you tell them what you did but it's still not the greatest thing to tell your boss.
我把你的车撞了!
当然，在停车场把你老板的车撞了是可能发生的。你告诉他们是你干的是正确的，但是这还不是你最应该告诉你老板的事。
4. Who's the guy I saw your wife with at the bar last night? This is one of those things that you really don't want to get involved with. If you tell your boss and then his wife proves you wrong, that could be the beginning of the end for you.
昨天晚上在酒吧里和你太太在一起的那个男的是谁啊?
这是你最不想掺和进去的事情之一。如果你告诉你的老板了，她的太太又证实了那不是真的，那么那也许将是你完蛋的开始。
5 You're late.
Being late has come to be one of those privileges4 that may inconvenience you but is their seniority right. Telling them they are late could be seen as undermining5 their position over you.
你迟到了。
上班迟到是那些对你看来很麻烦但却是老板们的特权之一。告诉他们他们迟到了可以被认为你藐视他们的地位。
6 No!
If the boss comes to you with a project to do, it's not always in your best interest to refuse to do it. You could suggest someone else do it or declare how busy you already are, but to say no might not be appreciated.
不行!
如果你的老板去找你让你做一个项目，但它并不总是你最感兴趣的。如果想要拒绝他，你可以建议其他人来做，或是告诉他你现在有多么忙，但是直接说不行也许会让你的老板很不高兴。
7. How much do you make a year?
We all would love to know the truth about that one, and maybe some boss' are free to discuss it. But generally, it's a big no, no.
你一年挣多少钱啊?
我们都想去知道这个问题的答案，也许有些老板也并不介意去讨论它。但是总体来说，这是一个很不合适的问题。
8. Can I have another raise?
Most companies have a set program for raises and you need to understand that plan so that you don't look foolish and ask for a raise out of turn. If you feel you're entitled6 then make sure you do a bit of research and find out the best time to ask.
能不能再给我涨一次工资?
大部分的公司关于涨薪有自己的一套程序，你要了解这个程序以至于你不会很傻地再要求额外涨薪。如果你觉得自己有涨薪的资格，那么你要确保自己做一些调查，找出最合适的时候去要求。
9. You don't know that?
Most bosses like to feel that they know everything, although you and the rest of the office may differ in opinion on that issue. Try beginning your sentence with, ”You probably already know this “. This shows your boss that you respect their intelligence, even though you know better.
你不知道那个?
大部分的老板觉得自己懂得所有的东西，尽管你和你办公室的其他同事也许会在一件事情上和你的老板有不同的观点。试着这样去说，“你或许已经知道这个”。这就让你的老板感觉到你尊重他的想法，即使你知道的更好一些。
10 Oops, I forgot.
And we do get so busy that we can't remember everything, but some things may not be well received when we say that. So, instead of saying you forgot, try, ”I"m on it but I haven't got through to them yet'. It's like saying the glass is half full instead of half empty. They mean the same; one just sounds better.
啊!我忘记了。
当我们很忙的时候，我们不可能记得所有的事情，但是有些事情当我们说忘了的时候，老板们也许就会不高兴。所以，你可以说，“我正在做，但是还没有完成”而不是直接说你忘记了。
这就像是说玻璃杯里的水是半满着而不是半空着一样。它们的意思是相同的，只是另一个听起来更好。
篇8：让我忘了你散文
让我忘了你散文
日薄桃溪崦崦，芳菲无意争春芬，霏霏雨，花丛碧，迷碟翩跹消寂的翅膀，萧萧山河白的雪黄的叶葛色的藤，思念悄然爬上心头，一句话一句承诺，懂得的人会一生珍惜，不懂的人莫要再靠近。
叶子在窗外轻轻摇动，人行道没有行人走过，枝丫在寂寞，镜子里的我很不像我，自从你离开了我变得很软弱，飘忽的心飘忽的魄，你的样子存在每一个空间都好像在提醒着我没有了你之后我有多么的不堪忍受寂寞。
冬残了冷未别，夜深了思绪停止不了妥协，麻醉了的灵魂思念还在继续感觉谁的最美。缘分让你我身边擦肩而过，你给的时间和我的时间差了衔接的端口，从前没有人看得见，现在没有人可以把握得住，以后也总是消失不见。
我想要忘了你，于是时间才不会度日如年它总在等一个不可能会再有的可能或这就是结果。爱你之后，每个季节皆是白色烟幕无从替，月缺星沉总不善解人意。我想要习惯一个人生活，于是在记忆中与爱擦肩而过，我想要假装不曾爱过你，可是思念却会如影随形。
让我忘了你，牵挂才不会日日夜夜
让我忘了你，悲伤才不会天转地旋
让我忘了你，心情才不会枯死如稿灰
我想我可以忘了你，只是冰凉的夜里连眼泪也是冰冻的。
寂静的长巷，冷漠看不清执着的归路，来来往往的人群中你在等着谁我在为谁而捱到天明。体温给抛弃在一边，瞬间发现伤痕累累，温柔无法勾勒情深，承诺早已被撕碎风中。路过伤过痛过的现在玫瑰悄然萎缩在地上看不穿昨天的繁华似锦。
我想我可以忘了你，只要每回思念时不再记起你微笑的样子，我想我可以习惯一个人去生活，我想我还可以在记忆里擦试去有关你的记忆，只是我还是和别人谈起你的名字和说起你的事情才发现原来我对于你的`事情我没有淡忘点一点一滴反而随着思念更刻骨铭心。
心情锁不进行李，时间带不走你给的记忆。眼睛忘不了滴落的泪，人来人往中数不尽孤独的漆黑渲染了寂寞的宇宙背影很相似，就在微笑时点一盏不灭的心灯从此为你不眠到终生结束的时候。
如果时间忘了我，谁还会记得曾经的我？
如果人类的流言非语淹没了花季的残美，你是否会记得曾经的美？
望不见的前尘万丈，放不下对你的牵挂依旧，岁月慢慢斑驳了容颜。
我想要忘了你，可是闭上眼却看到你的容颜，给不了力气面对有关你的一切，让我忘了你，从此耳旁才不会再响起你熟悉的声音，梦魇才不会在滴答间预报着明天的精神恍惚不知为了谁若喜若悲，知否？想念一个人的境界是就要疯了她就快要崩溃了。
相见欢，相离苦，相别思，是谁的指尖在拔弄心的鸣音期翼爱的鸾集？前生的情缘，今生的纠缠，天空点燃爱的烟火蹒跚爱人的脚步。两个无缘的人，为何会相爱？两个彼此相爱的人，为何不能在一起?明明相爱得很短暂，为何又会难过到窒息？
篇9：有没有歌让你流泪散文
有没有一首歌让你流泪散文
很多人都喜欢听歌，有的是因为喜欢音乐的美妙，有的是因为歌词产生了共鸣，有的是因为一首歌想起了一个人，有的纯粹是喜欢。
少年的时候，正是港台音乐流行的时期。那个时候最喜欢的是邓丽君，后来九十年代出现了更多的台湾歌手，那时候开始喜欢齐秦、童安格、苏芮、赵传。我听歌，开始是喜欢音乐的曲调，那种宛转、嘶哑、简单、易学，后来渐渐成长起来，对歌词也开始摸索，喜欢把喜欢的歌词抄下来，寻找歌词里与自己心底的想法相同的点。
不知道写歌词的作家，是不是也有很多不堪回首的往事，总是能写出大家心底的伤痛，让你不知不觉沉沦于音乐中无法走出。也许这就是音乐的魔力吧。
那年年少，喜欢了一个女孩，唱着赵传的《我很丑，可是我很温柔》，希望打动女孩，不想女孩也喜欢我，那时候心底才华溢出，唱了很多爱情歌曲，后来，一首《牵手》让我们悄然牵起了手，走在湖边的围堤路上，看着她眼眸含笑，嘴角微张，唱着《喜欢你》，吻上了女孩柔软的唇。那一年的夏季，因为她变得轻柔可爱，拂面而过的清风，带着薰衣草的清香，流转在风景里，而我，只是痴痴的凝视眼前女孩的眼睛。那一刻，岁月停滞了前行的脚步，流年徘徊在湖面，拨弄着青春的音乐。
怀念曾经爱过的光阴，就如一直藏在心底深处的那段记忆，镌刻在心瓣上。虽然后来分手，虽然有了新欢，虽然已经结婚了多年，孩子也大了，但是青春时的那个爱情故事，却难以忘记。不会刻意寻找曾经的她，那只是每个人青春都会经历的风景，掩藏在心底，是因为不想忘记自己快乐的青春岁月。
婚姻失败的时候，重复播放潘美辰的《我想有个家》，想起失去的温馨，想起与她在一起的点点滴滴，想起一家三个人拉着手快乐在日月的路上，这些终于离开了我，看着空落落的房间，看着余温依然的大床，孤单地蜷缩在床的角落，没有了那个喜欢在夜里躺在自己怀抱里的女人，也许如今躺在那个男人的怀里，也会很温暖吧。流着泪，哼着歌词，心底流满伤心，眼角布满苦涩。
孤单久了，就忘记了恨意，脑海浮出的都是曾经幸福的场景。祝你快乐幸福，曾经爱过的人；别了，曾经温暖的岁月；你好，前方的.风景，我来了，让年华拂去伤痛，打开幸福的大门。人生总会有不如意的一段路，就让过去彻底过去吧。眺望前方，才会幸福的。
那年母亲因为疾病，离开了我们。躲在家里，看着母亲的照片，听着苏芮的《酒干倘卖无》，想起了我们从年幼到成长的路上，总是母亲护着我们一点点长大。即使成年后，母亲还是牵挂我们日常的生活，不时做一些我们喜欢吃的饭菜，叫我们一起回家吃饭。
回家吃饭，多么陌生和感动的词。母亲七十的时候，还依然喜欢自己动手做饭，只是我们有了自己的小家，回家吃饭的次数渐渐少了，都是母亲每次打电话叫我们才回去，如今想想很无颜。
虽然母亲没有如电影中的那个父亲那般落魄，但是这么多年的成长中，把好的留给孩子，自己却借口胃口不好或不喜欢吃而留给我们，如今，自己有了家有了孩子，却懂了母亲那些借口的缘故。
祝母亲在那个世界开心，希望母亲来生还是我们的母亲，让我们好好爱您，把曾经遗失的爱重新温故。
“多么熟悉的声音，陪我多少年风和雨，从来不需要想起，永远也不会忘记……什么时候你再回到我身旁，让我再和你一起唱……”
一遍遍地听着这首歌，眼前母亲微笑着看着我。泪水止不住的流着，心底喊着“妈妈妈妈”，心瓣上仿佛有一把刀刻着。
愿母亲在天之灵眷顾我们，愿天下所有的母亲都能幸福快乐。
篇10：春风十里,不如微你散文
看见木棉花开得很疯狂，总是会有些心动的。可是木棉花树那么高大，拍个照还会逆光，我就感觉它遥不可及。地上落下来的，已经没有了美感，如果去踏春，我觉得，没有风景可入我眼。春天草太嫩，我不忍心去踏。
我在我的手机里看见了北京的柳芽，又看见了三亚的哈密瓜，东北的春雪，还有武大我心心念念的樱花。我不知道，还有什么事，是手机不能做到的。可怜还是有些悲天悯人的家伙用手机告诉大伙儿别做低头族，别老玩手机。我也不知道，不玩手机，该玩什么？抬头玩你啊？
春天从来都是在室外这样悄无声息地滋长着。我不知道，去很远的地方游一圈回来，就把春天带回来了吗？春天还是在外面。你的心里，还是只有羡慕，只有感叹，只有怀念。你能带回来的，只有手机里那几张绿得发亮的相片，和满心的疲惫。回味还在眼前呢，夏又来了，你又要出去看夏吗？对不起，我心里一直有一件耿耿于怀的事就是：过去一个时候我有大把的时间去玩，却没有钱；现在我有点去玩玩的钱了，可又没时间了；我知道，等我有钱又有时间的时候，它奶奶的，那时候我一定是要拄着拐杖玩不动了……人生就是这么悲哀，户外春光大好，我却用文字嫉妒那些常出外旅游观光的人，违心地说春天在自己手机里……
